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James 2:1-13

3 Distinctives of Christian Maturity

Introduction

All of the New Testament letters were written to Christians to help them to mature in their faith in Christ. If we are going to mature (in anything), we need to know what that state looks like, because “If we aim at nothing, we'll hit it every time.”

In this passage, James supplies us with a snap-shot of part of what it means to be a mature Christian. He describes three distinctives of Christian maturity . . . 

Values people's hearts more than their external appearance (vs 1-7)

Read verse 1. “Personal favoritism” is a poor translation. It means literally “receive by face.” James is saying that evaluating and classifying and treating people according to external matters is incompatible with faith in Christ. He brings this up because they were engaged in a practice which revealed that this is what they were doing.

Read vs 2-4. Their criterion for where they seat visitors is solely external dress, which is invalid. Why? Because this is not a reliable indicator of what is truly important about a person.

Read vs 5-6a. Many who are economically poor are nevertheless great in God's eyes because they have received Christ and love him.

Read vs 6b-7. Many who are economically wealthy have no personal respect for God at all and oppress his people.

It should be clear from this passage that instead of “judging a book by its cover,” we should value what's on the inside of a person more than what's on the outside. Specifically, people's attitude toward God and their character should be primary is our assessment of others. Why? Because this is the way God evaluates people.

This is where God looks when he decides who he will adopt as his children. The Bible says that God doesn't really care what race or class you're from, how famous or unknown you are, how many sins you've committed, etc. If he sees in your heart a recognition of your need for his forgiveness and a willingness to trust Christ to provide that forgiveness, he immediately makes you his child forever (Romans 10:9-10?).

This is where God looks when he decides who he will make great in his kingdom. When Israel wanted a king, God let them choose their own first king. They people chose Saul because of external qualities—he was handsome and tall. But because he lacked a heart committed to God, he was a miserable failure as a leader. When God made his choice, he selected David, not because of his physical appearance (he was just a youth), but because he was “a man after God's own heart”—he knew God personally and wanted to follow him (read 1 Samuel 16:7). This remains God's priority in all of his dealings with his people (2 Chronicles 16:9).

If God values the inside more than the outside, so should we. There are many lines of application for this principle.

One of the most distressing features of our culture is that its heroes are chosen almost solely on the basis of external bases instead of internal (“IMAGE IS EVERYTHING;” WEALTH; PHYSICAL APPEARANCE; SPORTS COMPETENCE). This is distressing because cultural heroes not only reflect our values; they also influence our values (VICIOUS CIRCLE). Who are your heroes—and why?

By this criterion, Jesus—the greatest person who ever lived—was a total failure (Isaiah 53:2).

This principle is also important when it comes to how the church selects its leaders. Leaders are de facto models for other Christians: they shape people's idea of what it means to be godly. According to the Bible, it is imperative that character be the primary consideration in the selection of leaders in the church (1 Timothy 3). Things like good looks, monetary wealth and political power should simply not enter into the selection of people for roles of leadership in the church. Giftedness and competence have their proper place, but what is on the inside is the key factor.

Sincerely seeks the good of others (vs 8)

Read verse 8. James calls this the “royal law” (“the law of the king”) because Jesus (the King) told us that it was one of the two highest priorities of life (Matthew 22:39).

Notice that it doesn't say we must love ourselves before we can love others. Many, by overlooking this, have turned this command into a mandate for loving ourselves more. But it assumes that we love ourselves, and calls us to love others in the same way in the same way that we love already ourselves.

How do we love ourselves? Not necessarily with emotional thrill, or with constant satisfaction—but always sincerely seeking our good and well-being as we understand these terms. We may be off sometimes about how we define that good, we may choose imperfect ways to seek that good, but we always relate to ourselves with this intent.

Given my very real limitations in understanding and resources, am I cultivating the habit of viewing them and treating them with this goal in mind? According to the Bible, this is the most critical component in my interactions with other people. If I relate to people with this intent, many other mistakes will probably be overlooked (1 Peter 4:8). But if I am failing to grow in this ability, I am a failure in life (1 Corinthians 13:1-3)!

The beauty of this command is that it covers so many situations. Rather than memorizing a big, thick rule book about how to act in different situations, we need only ask “What promotes the good of this person?” This makes things simpler, but not easier. Here are some of the questions I ask myself along these lines.

When correcting my children, is it to really teach them something they need to know, or is it only to control their behavior because they're bugging me?

When dialoguing with my spouse about an issue on which we disagree, do I communicate respect by really listening and trying to understand their point of view, or do I only debate or emotionally threaten to get my way?

Do I give to others freely, or with strings? Do I help people to develop their talents/abilities so that they can fulfill their own calling and potential, or only so they can pull my wagon?

Am I willing to speak up on behalf of someone that is being treated unjustly, or do I keep quiet to save myself possible attack?

Do I show courtesy and kindness to others, and sincerely apologize when I realize I hurt them, or do I minimize these things as unimportant?

We all know the world would be a much better place if we treated each other this way, and probably all of would like to relate to others this way. But why is it so difficult? Because only God can inspire us and motivate us and teach us how to relate to other people in this way (1 John 4:10-11, 16a, 17a).

In the following verses, James supplies us with another application of this principle . . . 

Shows mercy to offenders (vs 9-13)

Mercy is a synonym for forgiveness. It doesn't have anything to do with relativizing or minimizing the wrong done. It means choosing to not pay someone back for the wrong they have done to you.

Mercy is absolutely necessary in close relationships like marriage, because people are fallen and will hurt you. If you don't learn how to show mercy, you will destroy the relationship with your “pay backs” (SILENT TREATMENT; OUTBURST OF ANGER; CRITICAL SPIRIT).

Mercy is just as necessary toward those who have hurt you deeply but are no longer involved in your life. Unless you learn to forgive these people, the bitterness in your heart will spill over into other relationships and poison your life.

James indicates that the key to maintaining an attitude of mercy toward others is to remember what we really deserve from God and how he has responded to us. Although he is difficult to follow, this is his point in vs 9-13.

When it comes to keeping God's law, I always fall short in one way or another (vs 9-11). Regardless of how well I do compared to other people in certain areas, I have still failed utterly to pass God's requirement, whose evaluation matters most. Because I am a transgressor of God's law, I deserve his condemnation.

Yet God is prepared to grant me mercy. This is what it means to be “judged by the law of liberty.” God sets me free from his condemnation. He is able to do this because Christ's death satisfies my debt to God if I have received this forgiveness as a gift (GOSPEL). It is in this sense that mercy triumphs over justice. God has found a way to grant me mercy and still satisfy his justice.

Therefore, I should treat others with mercy. It is utterly inconsistent for me to be unmerciful to others when God has been so merciful to me. If I say I am incapable of showing mercy to others, I am saying I have never received God's mercy.

Ephesians 4:32—The most consistent thing that a Christian can do is to forgive those who have sinned against him. How are you doing at this?

Copyright 1993 Gary DeLashmutt


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